Here is more on discernment--in fact, perhaps the most spiritual approach there is, finding God and falling in love. This beautiful poem/prayer below was written by Fr. Pedro Arupe, SJ.
Nothing is more practical than finding God, that is,
than falling in love in a quite absolute final way.
What you are in love with,
what seizes your imagination,
will affect everything.
It will decide what will get you out of bed in the morning,
what you do with your evenings,
how you spend your weekend,
what you read, who you know,
what breaks your heart,
and what amazes you with joy and gratitude.
Fall in love,
stay in love,
and it will decide everything.