"You cannot hear your inner voice if your mind is on someone else."
That gem is from Hazelden writer Karen Casey. And it's a reminder to mind my own business and to come back to myself. When I detach with love it's so much better for the people around me but it's also wonderful for me too. When I stay out of his/her business--even in my head--then I can access my own creative thought and that still small voice of God.