I’m working on Step Ten and, as is my way, I’m reading everything written about it. (Why act when you can prepare?)
But I come back to this simple recommendation from page 84 of the AA Big Book:
One: Watch for selfishness, dishonesty, resentment and fear.
Two: Ask God at once to remove them.
Three: Discuss them with someone immediately.
Four: Make amends quickly.
Five: Turn our thoughts to someone we can help.
Here’s what strikes me: it’s not a lengthy process and it has a speed to it. Look at these words: “at once”, “immediately”, “quickly”, “turn”. This also suggests it’s not a nighttime activity as I had always assumed and practiced it. This suggests it’s on the spot, now, here, fast and in that immediacy and repetition many times during the day is the building of a habit. It’s kind of “Ooops. Help me. Dam. Sorry. Next.”
I’m also chewing on the idea that inventory includes the good and the bad, the saleable and the spoiled. So what part does looking at the good I did this day come into a 10th step inventory?